A family’s well-being is not just anchored on dieting and exercising, there are lots of other areas that tell how healthy and fulfilling a family is. As a parent, ensuring the wellbeing of your family can get overwhelming at times as it confers a lot of pressure and responsibilities on you. All these efforts are with the hope of having a better family life. Parenting should not be as daunting as this sound. It should be a fun and memorable experience; one that you will never want to exchange for anything else. So if you’re concerned about your family well-being and want to see it move to the next level, here are the areas you seriously should consider improving on.
Family relationships can have such a big impact on the well-being of a child. The parents’ involvement in the child’s life serves as the foundation of his/ her character. When a child feels that his parents wish to be part of his life, he feels treasured and loved. He will be more confident in his undertakings as he knows his parents are always there for him. This is true whether the child has both parents and/or only one of them, he can still have that sense of belonging. Even if the child is only with relatives, as long as his relatives show great relationship towards each other, he’ll still feel loved and secured.
Time spent with family plays a crucial role in the development of a family’s relationship. When the family spends time with each other, they feel that they are a part of something special and strong. In today’s busy world, money is the top priority of most families. With the economy going up and down, it is vital that the family has a stable source of income. It has become unavoidable to lessen the time spent with family just to keep up with financial needs. This situation is not totally hopeless. A meal a day spent with the family could already do wonders. When a family sits together during meals, they are able to have this connection that is only made stronger with each meal.
It is not only the relationship with the children that needs to be strengthened. The relation between the husband and wife would also reflect the relationship that will develop within the family. It would be best if the couple would have a time spent together where they can just focus on themselves. It doesn’t have to be on a luxurious cruise ship. A simple early morning walk or a weekend stroll on the park could maintain the closeness between them.
This all boils around debt. Debt is one of the most common problems of a family. The reason for having debts is mostly about the income not being enough for the needs of the family. Families would loan money to support the needs of today. But while doing so, the future is only made to look darker and darker. A debt cannot solve financial needs. It only offers temporary help. It is better to stop debt before it begins. Ideally, before starting a family, a couple should already have adequate funds to support family life. As it is not always the case, a family in debt still has that spark of hope. Instead of looking for other lender, looking for other sources of income is better. There are a number of companies offering part-time jobs which you can work on while still having a full-time job. Through this, the family will have adequate income and even future savings. Then again, one of the most effective methods of staying out of debt is by living within your means.
It may seem cliché, but health is definitely wealth. It is very easy to focus only on the financial aspects and the relationship revolving on the family life. But a focus on health should not be neglected. Being free of diseases not only gives peace of mind but also saves money. Another cliché will enter here. Prevention is better than cure. It is better to prevent sickness from befalling upon the family than to pay for the expenses to cure it. To achieve this, the family must have proper health practices. This does not only cover proper nutrition and physical fitness, but the whole well-being of a person. Stress management is one of crucial skills needed to be mastered. Stress, when uncontrolled can lead to various health problems. It is good to always have someone to talk to whom you can share your concerns and can get you moving in your life. Also avoiding unnecessary stresses in your life is key as well. Accepting things you can’t change and adapting to the situation are some of the steps to avoid too much stress. Having the right mind set can truly work wonders with your daily dealings.
Emergency response knowledge is not only beneficial when at home. This knowledge is imperative to every individual. Proper orientation to family members regarding the safety precautions to take when dealing with different materials and appliances at home could lower the risk of facing danger. Kids will not be able to absorb all these reminders at once so it is better that they are trained and reminded often. Emergency numbers should be placed in areas where is it easily seen. Various plans for varying emergency situations should also be laid out. Safety is not exclusive for emergencies. It could also cover safety when dealing with people and even with technology. Emphasizes should also be placed on adhering to safe driving practices like always putting seatbelt, avoid making calls or doing any other activity while driving etc. As long as rules are clearly stated, family safety will always be far from being at risk.
Family and Community
No man can live on his own, as such no family can live without interacting with the community. It is through the interaction with the community that a family learns to make adjustments and be stronger with their principles. Also, it is where the resiliency of the family is showcased. Dealing with different people is hard but with the help of the family strengthening each other, it is made easier. The community surrounding the family should not always be seen as a challenge but as a blessing as well. Cooperation will eventually develop as the family interacts with the people surrounding them.
There are some times when children are asked about their religion and they seem to be blank about it. Others know what their religion is called but can’t really go deeper about it. It is quite excusable as they are only kids. However, it would be better if kids are already exposed to the religion they’re in early in life. Through this, they will be able to build a strong foundation of their beliefs and will not be easily swayed by what others are saying. They will also have that sense of principle and will be able to stand by it because of their full understanding. Their faith will also be developed and strengthened. This goes a long way in making them better, as religion itself teaches about the need for a balanced life and how to live one. Then again, a full participation of the family is expected to have that stable footing in the family’s religion.
Housing and Environment
A family’s house and environment could greatly affect their quality of living. It doesn’t mean however that a family should stay in a first-class area to have happy moments. The provision of basic amenities to the family is already a big step towards a comfortable family life. Basic amenities for the family include enough food to eat, proper clothes to wear, and adequate income.
These are just insights provided. What to do with these insights largely depends on you. There is no available school for perfect parenting. Only theories are provided but the actual application of these theories are only later on discovered as one sets foot in reality. One can never fully understand a parent unless he or she becomes a parent too. For all the parents out there, your efforts are never wasted. You always have room for improvement and this improvement comes with time.
Remember that as a parent, your topmost priority should be not just your well-being, but that of your family. No matter how busy your lives get, it should not take of your focus on your family. With the above tips, you can improve the quality of the life of your loved ones and family. However, they are just insights, and what you do with them is entirely up to you. It is going to require some time and effort from you (and for some cases – a lot). However the case is for you; do not lose focus or get discouraged -remember that every journey starts with a step. No matter how many steps you will be required to take, one thing is for sure – that in the end, you will be glad you did.